What in the hell is wrong with some people?
The days when a persons yes was yes and no was no seem to have fucking vanished. I mean seriously, is it so hard to say no?
So once again, I am baffled by a woman. I'll give her some grace (which is why I said "people" and not women in the title) but I seriously wonder if this one is firing on all cylinders.
No responses to texts. When she does respond she makes it sound, very clearly too, that she is really into me. But when I ask if we can get together, she is silent.
Today's episode is she said she was busy last night (hey, an actual response) but "I would love to though tomorrow if you;re free" to which I responded I was and that would be awesome, I'd be home after 3pm and to just holler at me.
Today I got home early, did some work on arranging stuff in my apartment, did some laundry, cleaning, etc. 4pm went by no text. 6pm rolls around still nothing, so I send a text (I need to stop) and if she was still planning on coming by. Her response? "If I can break free." Really?? 🤔
It is now almost 9pm. Not a peep from her. I am just going to assume she isn't coming. Fine. Whatever.
The issue I really have is why the fuck is she leading me on if she cannot communicate that she can't make it, doesn't want to make, etc. I've spent the day looking forward to some relaxation with a woman, and instead I get my chain yanked.
Fucking pisses me off. This doesn't have to be that difficult. If you say yes, then stick with yes. I get plans change, but at least communicate that. I'd rather hear "something came up" than complete radio silence. If you can't/don't want to, fucking say so.
Fuck it. Going to bed. If she messages me, she can fucking wait in silence.